Bedtime false starts

Is anyone else experiencing ‘false starts’ every time their LO goes to bed for the night? My baby is waking every 20 minutes or so and needing resettling every evening for a good few hours no matter what we try. Any tips on how to stop it? Or does anyone deal with similar? Will it end?! - wake window is on average 2-2.5 hours after last nap (have tried longer and shorter to see if it helps) - showing sleepy cues - in a consistent routine of bath, story, baby massage, bed - we’ve tried the next to me and the cot - EBF - we’ve tried giving an expressed bottle before the bath - rejects a dummy - has stayed settled if I also go to bed at that time (around 7:30-8) which isn’t overly practical - we use white noise and black out blinds - naps are fine, happen in her cot mostly and she is able to be put down awake and will self sooth herself to sleep. - She’s not a great contact napper and gets fussy quickly if she falls asleep on me -She wakes up at about 7am - She is on about 3 naps a day, averaging a total of about 3 hours a day.
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Exactly the same! And v similar with naps/routine. Wakes every 30 mins and I put her back in cot 3 times. Then co sleep for rest of night. I think with mine she just really wants the contact with me and feels unsettled without it 🥴 hoping as she starts to get bigger, she becomes mire confident in her own sleep space. Don't mind co sleeping during the night but would like to have a but of evening back!

Does she fall asleep herself at bedtime? I've had this problem with both my babies but it went away soon after they could self-settle for all sleeps. Generally by about 5 months. But I hear you, it is so frustrating trying to figure out if there's anything you can do to stop it, and the waiting for when they are going to wake up again.

I’ve tried both… she mostly feeds to sleep at bedtime as when I have tried to put her down awake (exactly like she is used to for her naps) she screams bloody murder 😅 she had eventually self soothed to sleep a couple of times but will still wake again after maximum a sleep cycle

October baby was like this, bedtime was harder than naps. I comforted him by singing if he got upset but it did take a few weeks. After he could self-settle himself for a week or so at bedtime then the false starts reduced and have stopped now. If I fed him to sleep he would definitely false start, but sometimes I did it anyway if he was too upset and not settling.

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