What are your thoughts on couples massages (done by other women)

@Tia I mean that’s what I was thinking, I’m generally chilled but not sure i’d be relaxed watching another woman massage my naked man 😂

We’ve done it before. It was ok.

We’ve done it a few times it’s amazing

As a massage therapist, I just want to reassure everyone that to be brutally honest we have 0% interest in your man, (yes, even if he’s good looking) are not feeling any attraction or arousal while doing our job, (we see naked people all day every day, we’re faaaaarrr more likely to be mentally making shopping lists and schedules than having erotic thoughts) and we forget about you and your fella as soon as you’re out the door because we are immediately either rushing to prepare for our next appointment, grabbing a bite to eat, or it’s the end of our shift and we just want to get home ASAP so we can get off our tired feet and rest our tired bodies.😆

I had the jealousy over a massage mindset literally when I was 19 years old lol

What kind of massage parlours are you looking at that you would get jealous 😂😂 Have done loads, the women are very professional and massage lots of men and women each day they have no interest in your other half. If you’re worried your other half is going to throw himself at another woman in front of you question your choice of partner

A massage is not romantic. At all. Massage therapists have seen so many bodies they take zero interest in yours. Honestly I prefer individual massages and would do literally anything else for a romantic experience

Me and my husband have had a few 'couples massage' before. They are not romantic at all. It just means you are in the same room having a massage rather than being in separate rooms.

My partner and I get massages quiet regularly and we love it. I don't care if it's a male or female therapist for me or for my partner.

@Claire this is what I’m saying it was specifically advertised as a romantic experience but I’m confused about what is romantic about it because I personally wouldn’t find that romantic! 😂

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Honestly, they’re probably gearing up their Valentine’s Day advertising. 😆 But really, couple’s massages honestly can be “romantic” in that you can enjoy each other’s company while getting some pampering and de-stressing. However, if one or both partners aren’t comfortable with that situation, then it will more likely be an awkward experience than an enjoyable one. No one is inferring that it will (and it definitely shouldn’t!) be titillating sexy time. Just a pleasant, relaxing 60-90 minutes spent within easy speaking distance of your partner. But it’s not everyone’s thing, and that’s totally ok.