Who would be going to the party ie family or nursery friends? Personally I would do it separately or just do one for the 4 year old if it’s just his friends.
@Karen only family x and I think the family would prefer this as well as it’s more work for them to get together as everyone is busy
My kids are are 2 years and 4 days apart ( 22nd march snd 26th march )so we will always do joint party’s when it comes to family , friends we will do separate
My kids birthday are January and February we did a big birthday party for them last year and it was great. Glad I did it. When they are young joint is fine x
My boys will be 6 (October) and 1 (December) this year. We’re doing two separate parties. It will only be joint if they ask for it.
If it’s just a family gathering at home then I would do 2 for each birthday with them being a month apart but any closer then yeah joint. Both my girls have birthdays 6 days apart so I’m doing a joint one at home
They’re only babies. I had a joint party till I was 10 and my brother was 6. My three youngest kids will have joint parties forever because they share a birthday.
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Ask them what they think 👍🏼