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And he's still your boyfriend? Jeez, I'd have dumped him on the spot and sent him on his merry way!
@Rebecca exactly, there wouldn't be a "next time I'm over at his place" for me!
It's the same advice I'd give someone else. Not sure why it's so difficult for me to do myself.
Incog it’s always easier to give advice rather than take your own lol I’d say find your anger and use it to fuel you. Your EX boyfriend told you that you are not his partner and he’s just out here wasting your motherfuckin time, using you for free sex, gifts, shelter etc because he thinks he’s such a catch and you ain’t shit, he’s settling by being with you and is just biding his time until he finds your upgrade. Now, keep that same anger and give him 2 business days to come collect anything he has at your place, then block and delete his number and NEVER speak to him again! Another way to look at this is he has shown you who he is now, rather than in 10/20/30 years time. At least now the universe is giving you a chance to find someone who truly cares for you. 🫶🏽
Whilst I agree that we should never chase those who don’t value us or see our worth, I think you are wasting your time helping him find ‘the one’. It sounds like he has a bunch of work to do on himself before he does find the right person and you deserve to spend your time doing better things that are for yourself, not him! 💕