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Has anyone got a relationship where you let your partner sleep around?

There are some materials from the school of life that suggest extra marital sex is helpful and love and sex are not the same thing so partners can have other lovers. I hav been pondering it as my DH is extremely lacking a sexual relationship with me after kids. I had no interest for a year after my first as was bre...

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Why is making friends so hard 😭

I’m 32 a mom of three. I hate to say that I haven’t had a close friend in almost 10 years. All my conversations are with my children since I’m a SAHM. Everyday I wish I had friends that I could just text and send funny memes to all day 🥺 I’m so lonely I hate it 😭 I really want to get past the surface level…

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How to leave BD if needed?

Things haven't been going well with my partner since our baby was born 6 months ago. I'm really trying but I'm so drained all the time. He's nice most of the time but there's just some things that we just can't agree on even 10 years into the relationship. I didn't put my baby on any daycare lists because the plan w...

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BD keeps Threatening to get me pregnant

I had a very hard first pregnancy and birth. I was high risk and my labor was even more traumatic. My baby’s life and mine was in jeopardy. He stayed in the hospital room and refuse to attend the emergency c section after a very long labor (multiple days) because he was tired. I did it all by myself. This man keep...

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How did you decide to be SAHM if you had the choice?

With my first, mat leave was a joy but i didnt really feel i did much with him and he got more opportunities to develop after he joined nursery. But at 1-2 years, he was sick alot for 5 months and i didnt excel at my job and once we got into the flow, my father died (folllowed monthly until Christmas by other relati...

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Having sex ?

Are you guys having sex ? My baby just turned 3 months and my husband and I had sex only once since then . I’m just sooo tired at night when she sleeps and busy during the day, that it’s just not happening. My mind is not really on the topic either … Wondering how others are making it work ?

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Milestones app

Can anyone recommend a good app for milestone development please

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Let’s be friends

Any 420 mamas out in GA👀 looking for friends here who won’t judge me😅🫶🏼

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Any 420 mama's in san Diego.

Let's get the kids together for a play date 🥰

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friends

anyone in or near middletown??

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New friends

Hi I have a 2 year old little boy and a 6 week old baby girl, we are looking to make new friends to meet up with and do fun things 😊

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If your partner said you embarrass them, would you believe they loved you?

in reality there was more than just that said; but just based on that part alone how would yall feel?

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Farm Park?

Has anyone taken their 7/8 month old to a farm park or similar? Did your little one enjoy it? Wondering what to do on my first Mother’s Day, and if baby would be too young for this kind of thing ☺️

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Looking for a mom friend to chat with!

Hey mamas! I am looking for a mom friend to text regularly! Someone friendly, funny, and with a similar lifestyle. I am a stay at home mom. Ideally, you have a baby around my son’s age or a bit older (He is 14 months), sleep trained, and on a structured routine just so we can relate to each other’s schedules and cha...

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Feelin awkward with partner

I’ve been with my partner for 5 years now. We have a 5 month old baby. We haven’t had sex since I was about 6/7 months pregnant as it got to be too hard with how sore I was and it just hasn’t happened since. He was always very affectionate before I had the baby and in the last couple of months that has died down m...

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August Event☀️🎊

Anyone up for this? Maybe we can plan a meetup and make some friends if your up for this a groupchat will be made 💜

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