finding out he’s in a relationship

So i’m 37 weeks pregnant literally about to drop, baby boys dad and me haven’t been together since the very beginning of my pregnancy but he says he wants to be involved and up until a couple months ago wanted us to be a family still. Today I’m doing my usual facebook scroll and see he’s changed his pfp to him and this girl, looking at his and her page it’s very obvious they’re together. honestly good luck to the poor lass i don’t want him back or anything like that but i also find it quite disrespectful that i found out through facebook and he didn’t tell me himself. am i overreacting or should it have been something i was told about as the mother of his child before they made it public

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Yes you should have been told!!

It’s his personal life why do you feel obligated of him to tell you your just his bm

Maybe if you both had been seriously talking about being together as a family after the birth, but if you're not interested in having him back, he doesn't have to necessarily. It may have been respectful to as you both are tied for life via this tiny human. But how would you feel if the roles were reversed and you started seeing someone new and he was upset you didn't tell him first? I know hormones can be running high atm. For now, it's best to avoid any stress or worry and just focus on yourself and babe for the last few weeks of your pregnancy 💌

@Amber so we all get into relationships with the intention of staying together, and he wants to be involved in our child’s life, i’m assuming he isn’t planning on keeping the two completely separate forever and personally i would like to know who is around my child

To acknowledge that you didn’t want to be with him and still don’t but be upset that he didn’t communicate his personal life with you sounds kind of entitled. Yes, you’re the mother of his child but both of you deserve to be happy and if your happiness is NOT being with him you shouldn’t be upset if he found happiness with someone else. At this point while not wanting to be with him romantically your only concern should be him being present for the child you two will be raising together.

He does have to tell you he’s dating that’s his business

I wonder if his new girlfriend knows about you and unborn baby, because if i found out my new partner had an unborn child on the way I wouldn't want to get involved 🙈🤔

Your not overreacting… this newer generation has no morals. If a man impregnates you and had a gf the entire time he should of definitely lyk

@Stephanie Louis-Juste But what if he tried to be with mama but mama vocalized she didn’t want a relationship with him….so he meets someone new and starts a relationship. She didn’t say he has a gf the entire time she said he recently started seeing someone else after rejecting him romantically for months….shes not saying she’s mad about the gf shes mad at the fact that he didn’t tell her about the gf 🥴

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