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So I just moved and I had food stamps in previous state if I cancel my benefits will it effect anything I have left remaining on my card until I receive benefits for new state?
Hi everyone! So I have my first FET scheduled for tomorrow (Monday the 7th) and I have a wedding on the 12th, which will be 5 days post transfer. Do you think it’s okay to still go? My doctor advised me to return to my normal life on Tuesday, so I’m going to work and try to keep warm. What other tips could you g...
Has anyone done the open adoption process inthe uk ? I’m wondering how it works, on a personal level instead of just using google. Are you able to see your child, can the parents decide to not want it to be an open adoption, how often can you see your child Is it hard to give up, did you feel like changing your mi...
Hi all I had 5 eggs retrieved yesterday and just had a call that all 5 were mature. 2 fertilised abnormally and 3 fertilised ‘nicely’ Anyone had any success with low numbers like that? Xx
Just finished and so chuffed I made it. Currently 38+2 and had to drag myself to the end and so happy to be here now! How has everyone spent their mat leave so far to avoid feeling like just waiting? I'm usually quite "out and about" but I'm huge and swollen so feel like I might get cabin fever...
So irritated that I can't find him for him to pay child support. This is hard
Is anyone else who discussed about having multiple kids, had their first baby and has decided strongly against giving birth to anymore? I’m getting guilted A LOT by family members saying it would be too cruel and selfish of me to not have another baby. But, I’ve suffered immensely from PPD and PPA and sadly took a...
Will/do you have more kids even though you have a child that is on the spectrum? I’d love to have another one but I’m debating if that’s selfish even though I know my current child will always need extra support xx
Anyone else ever go a bit spaced out / dizzy when collecting colostrum lol?
To unexpected people, not someone you expected
Hi girls! At the start of this journey I was so worried about egg collection, now my only fear is managing to get some eggs. Triggered last night 10,000iu zivafert Only 5 follicles look like having a chance tomorrow. So worried xx
There’s a controversial post on here about not having children if you don’t have the time for them. But indirectly, it raised an important and uncomfortable question: Do people who have had rough, traumatic, or even abusive childhoods deserve life? Many individuals endure experiences we can’t even begin to imagine,...
Adoption seems worse to me so wanted to see
I am getting a membrane sweep on Monday!!! Has anyone had it and if so, was it successful? I will be 38 weeks and I’m nervous
Has anyone read the recent ipaper article about the declining birthrate in the UK? There are 3 articles within it and I read the one by Rhiannon Picton-James. She argues that the UK is a really bad place for having babies and that as a mum with a baby/young child she feels very unwelcome in many places. She notes ...
I’m in a dilemma and really struggling with this. How would any of you feel about having to share your nonverbal child with her father and his current girlfriend—someone who has insulted you, mocked your mental health, made fun of your body, and sent so much hate your way? Would you feel comfortable sending your chi...
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