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Have you ever had an STD or an STI?

I’ve got ulcers on my inner vagina (labia) and I’ve been tested for herpes and feel gross! I haven’t had sex in 4 months but can get it months or even years later… I just want to know is it curable or if you’ve ever had one? As I feel it’s so shaming and frowned upon! Don’t comment unless you feel comfortable too! 🙏🏻

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Husband lied to my face

Is my relationship over? My husbands web search history has "how to meet a new gifriend" and "top dating sites uk" with elitesingles visited. I haven't yet showed him I've searched is history, but I asked if he has been looking for a new relationship and he said no not at all with no nervousness or lying (if I di...

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Friends or more?

Hello! My name is Christina. I’m 25, live in my Pennsylvania! I’ve been bi since i was 12 years old! Married to my husband for almost a year, but I’m also looking for a female friend who is willing to be my friend or possibly more! Can be long distance or local!

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What’s a bad reason to get a divorce?

I’m asking because it’s difficult to know if it’s a phase that will pass, as a lot of people say or if it’s wasting your life to stay with the person.

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Lonely for the holidays

None of my family including my siblings invited my husband and I for thanksgiving. I found out they were getting together for dinner by my youngest sister. None of my siblings have even reached out since their first newphew (my son) was born. Only my youngest sister. Should we bother to stop by their house or stay h...

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Working mums… are you taking days off all the time because of sick baby?

I have been back to work for 3 months and almost every week my daughter is either sick or been sent back home from nursery. I have had tonsillitis myself for almost 3 weeks and I am struggling to cope. Me and my husband both work full time so it’s really tough. Anyone else in the same boat?

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Wooooo Saaa thanksgiving

Which one would get you --- irritated the most.... A. You come to the Thanksgiving table , this year ----after water fasting, all morning so you can 'be ready to eat' ... All the sides look great, pies , corn bread and all. But the Main dish??? It's mashed Vienna Sausages- in a turkey shaped mold... They called it ...

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Fake tan ?

Did you fake tan during your pregnancy? Pre pregnancy I would go on sunbeds as I love a little tan but I’ve stoped now am pregnant and I have heard such mixed opinions on weather or not fake tanning is okay during pregnancy ? Opinions ?

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omg

see the same people in here begging and complaining that they want mom friends and then when you text them they text and ghost you after a day of conversation 💀or just insanely dry with 0 communication skills

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Vitamins for baby after 12 months

What vitamins are people giving their babies after they turn 12 months and how are you giving them? My boy used to love having the NHS healthy start ones but now he pushes my hand away every time I try to drop them in his mouth. He also hates laying down now.

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Christmas

My husband And I recently got married, recently had a baby. Like everyone nowadays, money is kinda tight for us. I want to get my husband and my daughter a few gifts but all the things that my husband wants are >$100. And I was eyeing things for my daughter that are between $25 and $50. I only have a budget of about...

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Christmas 🎁

What are we all buying or giving as ideas to other people who want to buy gifts for our 4 month old babies? We are really struggling!

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Free toys

Giving these toys away as my little girl doesn’t play with them anymore. In good condition. Collection only x

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Friendships

How are your friendships going after having baby etc? I wasn’t expecting much from friends but wow…never thought they’d care so little.

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I would love some mam friends to talk I have no friends, it can be very lonely

It would be nice to have someone to talk to and laugh with.

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What’re your thanksgiving staples???

What foods do you think of when it’s thanksgiving? Or favorites?

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Christmas idea for mum

Hi all, My mum will be starting to look after my 1-year-old next year when I'm back at work. I want to get her present to do with that all I can think of so far is a voucher to a cafe so she can get coffees while she takes my baby out for walks. After some more interesting ideas thanks!

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best birth control?

I have had the depo and piled on the weight, the pill made me abit unstable😂 what’s the best controception that doesn’t gain weight or effect your mental health I have BPD so it’s really important nothing chemically is altering anything as i’m really sensitive to medications/hormones etc

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Abusive relationship

How do some of you who are in an abusive relationship make friends? Anything I tried to make friends he thinks is a dating app

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True friends

Is it possible to meet someone who be my ride or die and love my children like they’re own and back me in a room even if I’m not in it but tell me off in private

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