Feeling discarded

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This is what my own dad did to me, I've met him 3 times and honestly he's the biggest waste of space and don't get me wrong it was hard growing up knowing he was with this whole other family and seeing this other child that was born with 14 days between us but once I realised how much I haven't needed or wanted him in life, im honestly glad, I am who I am today because my mum with help from my nan raised me and ensured I never felt any less loved, wanted and cherished. It's hard, really hard knowing that you'd do anything for yourself child whilst the other parent wouldn't but you also need to remember that YOU would do anything, you do love your baby beyond reason and you will raise your baby in a happy, healthy and joyful environment x

I can fully relate. My baby’s dad went back to his ex wife when I was 30 weeks pregnant and they are back to raising their 8 yr old son together. My girl is 7 months and he has never met her and has blocked me on everything so I can’t even send updates and it’s still killing me 😞

@Lauryn he’ll definitely get his karma for that. and her too for being okay with allowing a child to miss out on her father. people like that are terrible to the core

Same love my baby daddy is with my mate and I’m better off without him and so are you hun it’s easier really doing it alone cos you get into your own ruitine and do it how you want I’m 40 and have 18 and 15 year old and I did that on my own and I’m 21 weeks pregnant and doing this on my own we are women we are strong we can do anything xx

I agree. I strongly believe he went back because she was refusing him access to his son unless he did. I told him over and over that we would go through the courts to get him access but it wasn’t enough and now she won’t let him see his daughter. They are both as useless as each other and if he is that weak and pathetic then she is welcome to him. Doesn’t stop it hurting though because my girl is missing out. She has me though and we will get through it together ❤️