Does it get easier?

What I mean by that is pregnancy and parenting. I'm 14, and pregnant. I haven't even got to highschool yet and I am so scared. I don't know what I'm going to do, it's incredibly hard right now and the baby isn't even here, let alone when she is here, great goodness.
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How far along are you? Do your parents know? Is dad in the picture? It might seem hard now but you’ll get through this!

Parenting in general is hard and there is always going to be new obstacles to face. It does get easier with time especially having a good support system. You need people you can depend on during this time. Even if that means finding your village on here.

It's definitely going to be rough I'm 18 and not quite done with highschool but honestly the best thing I did was tell my family even though I really didn't think it was going to go well I ended up having a lot more support then I thought I would. If you ever need I'm here to talk to about anything you need and am happy to help. I don't know where you're located but I'm in Washington so whether you need in-person or online friend I'm happy to help

i was 14 when i had my first abortion and then 16 when i had my daughter add my snap and we can talk :mjj4everr

I'm so sorry you're going through this. If you ever wanna talk, you can text me. I'm 19

Lord

Don’t listen to @Mella. Such a massive head yet she can’t use it to say nice things 🙄 If you haven’t told your parents yet I definitely would. I was 17 when I had my son and yes I’m my experience it got a lot better not having to hide anything and having such a wonderful support system. Pregnancy itself also gets a lot easier once you hit the second trimester. Sending my love 🫶

Pregnancy and parenting isn't easy at any age. Especially probably not 14 as your so young and can't financially support yourself but things happen. All you can do is your best. Ask for help and other moms advice. It's a learning experience. Rely on these groups to help you and support you emotionally and with tips to get through it. It will be ok 🩷

@Cat Good Lord and ofc u said sum just a bunch of babies with babies 😂😂😂

@Mella you know what I’m not even gunna bother arguing. You’re clearly set on your opinions. Hope you have a sad and pathetic life.

@Cat okay then u shouldn’t have responded to my comment in the first place and I wouldn’t argue with a child anyways 😂😂😂 have a good one

I’ve been in your boat! I got pregnant at 15 unexpected during my first year of HS and it was so hard….. I’m 16 and I had a beautiful daughter, she’s 2 months now! My parents kicked me out and I live with my BD as of now. Life is so hard but also so rewarding! I know I’m doing the best I can for my baby and I’m trying so hard….You need people with you because it can get lonely so find you a village! I’m here if you need to talk! ❤️

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