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So today was the first day in a long time I asked for help and I don't like doing it as no one really helps me or I get told off. Well I got told no due to parent not feeling well, then was made to feel bad but her friend has asked her to go hospital with her and is happy to help. Please if I'm in the wrong for feeling hurt over lack of support let me know I just wanted to find some mum's goin throug the same and how to cope
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i’m sorry that you’re feeling unsupported at a time of need :( just trying to see both sides, is it possible that your parent didn’t want to be unwell around your baby? either way, you’re not in the wrong for feeling the way that you are. i hope things start to look up soon xxx

@Hannah it's more to do with arthritis, I was soaking about it with a relative and they said she wants a break which I get but I hate asking for help and the one time I do I'm told she feels sick, starts making it about her in a way, yells at me she's going to teach me how to clean and I just wanted to cry. She's told me if I break up with my partner she wouldn't let me back home even though she had a 4 bedroom house with 2 spare bedrooms that noone uses meanwhile we have a one bed council and I sleep on the couch sorry for the rant o feel like I needed to get that off my chest and sometimes talking on here helps

@Sam ah that’s horrible, i’m so sorry, it’s not for her to act like that towards you when you’re being vulnerable and asking for support. i hope things begin to get easier for you soon and you can get some breaks and rest. and don’t apologise, venting is good! xxx

@Hannah just had to rant today as it's the first time in a long time I've asked fed help and I got that response I don't know what's wrong with me. Then they turn it around on me saying it's me being rude.i just want some support I definitely find that generation had loads of help but don't want to help anyone else

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