Relationship advice

Since having my baby I don't feel like being very sexually active as I had a tramatic birth and I dont love my body like I used to. However my partner is very sexual driven we have a few times just got as much as he would like. He knows I've got a past with sexual abuse however he now waits till u fall asleep and then I get woken up to him inside me and I hate it I've spoken to him about it and he's like oh its fine you'll enjoy it relax when I tell him to stop or how uncomfortable it makes me but then part of me just feels bad after saying no and just goes through with it. I've told him on multiple occasions not to do it and he still continues j have nk one else to talk to this about ehat do I do?

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Leave him. That’s rape, regardless of what he says. If you say no, then it should mean no.

That is rape please leave him

So sorry you’re having to go through this by the way. That’s just awful. You’ve set a boundary and he continues to violate that and you. Not okay. Do you feel like you want to leave him? I probably would just because if he can do that to the mother of his child it makes you think what else he could be capable of you know. Do what’s best for you and baby. Stay safe💘 try and have a good holiday if possibly mama

I’m soo sorry hun but that’s rape and as awful as it is, it will get worse. I would leave him and don’t go back. Get the help you need and maybe think about pressing charges x

That is not ok. I’m so sorry that you are dealing with this. Please understand no part of that is acceptable behaviour. I won’t tell you to leave him that’s up to you but you must make him realise that’s not ok. Whether you tell him yourself or you report him, he needs to learn that is not how you treat a partner. As mentioned above, there’s no two ways about it, that’s clearly rape 💔

Rape, report him to the police and leave . Reporting him lets the courts know if you ever want 100% custody of your child that he is not capable because that is a big charge. DO NOT allow this it is not okay whatsoever. That is considered rape even if you are married still has to be consensual(as you said it is not) I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this but that is not right for him to ever do that, I pray you find a way out and protect your baby.

I would definitely let him know that you will call the police if it happens again so he understands the severity of having your consent. Its not something you should just avoid/deal with because hes your partner! It’s YOUR body.

Girl he is literally a rapist wtf. Wonder how many other women he's raped before

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