Does it annoy anyone else
Just venting. But does it annoy anyone else when people keep telling you to stay positive?
It gets so frustrating when every time you get bad news or bad outcome it’s like you’re expected to be positive on top of that.
It just gets to the point I’d rather not tell anyone about IVF and just keep it to myself
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It’s the worst. It always made me feel like they were saying it was my fault somehow. As if I wasn’t positive enough.
@Ashley I totally get it! TTC is an emotional rollercoaster as it is and at this point we just want support and understanding. Every day isnt going to be glitter & gold while going through this process.
I have a friend that keeps saying don't worry I know it's going to happen, next year will be your year, and next time. It's infuriating, I know she's trying to be positive. But it just gets on my nerves! (She has a little one) So probably just doesn't get it!
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It gets annoying for me when people tell me that if i dont think about it, it will happen when clearly i have PCOS and dont ovulate on my own so I would need medical assistance. Only my parents and close friends know we are currently undergoing IVF and its alot i still keep from them