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Am I doing something wrong?

I just had my baby 2 days ago, I’ve noticed that he’s sleeping all the time and isn’t even crying to be fed, it hits 3 hrs after his last feed and I get so worried because he doesn’t show signs that he’s hungry and it scares me so bad. I’m feeling really overwhelmed because I had to be induced and I was not mentally...

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MIL / Arthritis - Babysitting 1yo

My MIL (76) has always struggled with her knees, back and hip. She's just been diagnosed with arthritis in all those areas, moderate in her knees. Some days are better than others. I have a 13 month old who is in nursery Monday - Wednesday. I'll soon be going back to work on Fridays so wanted to put him in nursery...

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Nigerian/African mums

I have a 1 month old baby, and I am not Nigerian, but my partner is. When he has called his mum back home she has commented that we need to not hold her as much as he usually is holding her on the call and that we should let her cry which I feel uncomfortable with and feel the baby is too young for. Atm, we hold her...

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Partner not being understanding

Is anyone else feeling their partner doesn't appreciate how hard pregnancy can be? Anytime I have a little moan or say I'm struggling with something he makes a little comment like being pregnant isn't a disability Still 7 weeks to go but I'm feeling huge and tired. I'm trying but just don't feel up to doing everyt...

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Have 2 kids or stay with 1?

I would like a second child because I think long term I would enjoy having a bigger family and love the idea of my child having a sibling. (I am an only child and wish I had a sibling). My husband is not so keen on the idea as he works long hours (50+ a week) and says he always feels so tired. I feel like long t...

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MlL

Am I the asshole my mother in law lives 10 minutes drive from me since baby been born she's only seen her a handful of times (she's 5months old ) last time see she her was just before Christmas the other day my partner bumped into her in the shops and she was moaning to him as to why we haven't been round and how mu...

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Your husband never goes out. Finally goes out twice a week with coworkers, are you blowing his phone up while he’s out?

I’m just thinking how mad I would be if I finally had a few hours to hang with friends then get angry messages from my spouse

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Got the tea 🫖 (GAY TEA)

Omg… so I know yall will love to hear this horrific fucked up story! My baby daddy is a 31 year old man and is constantly on VrChat (we broke up months ago and I’m currently in another state with another man) he wasn’t paying any kind of child support and was running around his little game on his headset saying he ...

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Opinions?

Dad: • WFH Mon-fri 8:30am-5pm • Cooking is split 50/50 • Picks up toys etc in the evening 4 nights a week Mum: • Works 4 nights a week; 8:30pm-6:30am • Does all family washing, drying and putting away • Does all the washing up & cleaning kitchen • Does all mopping, hoovering, dusting • Cleans shower, bathro...

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Stuck

I have been with my partner for almost three years, we have a 18 month old together. I don’t even know where to begin but it’s been hard really here recently and over and over the thought of not caring about the relationship has come up too many times. I understand being a parent is hard and trying to have a relatio...

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Would you feel comfortable leaving your 5 year old in a room with their 7 year old cousin who’s expressed dark thoughts and ideas…

For example he has said “I’m going to get a knife and kill my whole family” he has a very damaged childhood with social services involved.. I mean to me the answer is obvious but to my husband apparently it isn’t!

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Do you know if

my dad pay my child’s nursery bill?

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Everything is no and the opposite

Anyone else drained from it? Everything we say to do is ‘no’ and every time we ask him to do something it’s ‘no’ or we’ve done it wrong. Its constant tantrums. It’s getting to the point where he’s not nice to be around. I know it’s developmentally expected but he’s just becoming very bratty and I don’t like him some...

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Cooking and house chores

Hi mamas! I've been having a hard time doing anything but to take care of the baby. My baby is 3 months now and feeds (breastfeed) every 2-3 hours. Initially I had some family/friends helping with cooking/ordering food. Now I find myself ordering Uber almost every day because I'm super hungry and don't have time to...

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What should I do ?

So early our almost 2 year old threw something at our living room Tv and it broke the Tv was bought 3 years ago it’s a LG OLED 65 inch that cost well over $1000 my bd is mad at me and saying I need to help him replace it . We do have another spare Tv for the time being . He wants me to go half with him on it because...

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Dwindling friendships

Here we go another “where did my friends go” post. One of my oldest and closest friends has rescheduled a meet up as of today for a fourth time. 1-okay 2- damn adult life 3- are you actually trying to meet up? I gave 3 different dates and a selection of restaurants. Answered in time for last offered date and didn’...

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Tips, tricks, and advice for household upkeep

Like the title says, I need it all. Please help. I’m only going to get worse health wise and my kids are still young as in toddler-child ages. I want to teach them all I can, give them a good home, and not make myself worse.

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Whining

Hello! Hi! I’m exhausted. Feeling defeated. I have an independent 19 month old toddler who rules this house. And I mean…is spoiled. When we are out in public or even home she acts like a fool. She is throwing temper tantrums. Not staying close by near my husband and I and doing her own thing. Obviously I am well ...

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Vent/Rant - Depression/Isolation Feelings

I've been feeling trapped, isolated, depressed, all of it. My husband comes home from work and is so tried he takes a nap pretty much after hellos and a snack. Now I understand he's tired, he worked all day but damn, I'm soo sick of feeling still alone after he comes home. Unfortunately we had one of our cars break ...

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What was the last straw?

I'd like to hear from others when they knew their relationship was not worth it anymore? Mine was when I went to my bf (ex now) house and I called asking him to make sure the door was open for me to come in with our baby (it's winter). And I'm greeted with a face full of anger and huffing. So I ask why are you huff...

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