I've got a 1 and 3 year old on a schedule
@mj, what’s your day to day look like?
@S. annalese like a daily schedule. I think me and the kids would benefit with more structure.
@Willow Wake up between 7-8am. Breakfast and get ready. If I make plans I try to make them about 10am (park dates, library dates, Dr appointments, anything I need to get done). Snack comes with us and they eat when hungry or crabby. Come home, eat lunch and little one naps while big one plays by herself or colors and I clean. When they're both up we eat snack and either play inside together or walk around the neighborhood. Dinner at 5ish (I prepare it the night before or during naptime). 6:15 bedtime snacks and getting ready for bed. 7:00 little one goes to bed and after the older one goes to bed.
What type of schedule specifically? Sleeping, day to day, play? Eating? My kids are 4 years apart so I think I might be able to somewhat answer your question.