Husband not helping me as much?
Am I over reacting here? My husband is on late shifts this week and I also had his daughter all weekend whilst he worked plus my now 6 month old baby which I found very hard. He’s now come home and said he’s really tired and is going to lie down because he has a migraine as I was putting baby to bed. Didnt offer to make dinner whilst I did that or hang up the washing. I come downstairs and he’s on the couch with a blanket over his head whilst I tidy and hang up the washing. I just slammed the door shut after I was done and have gone to bed with no dinner hungry as I’m not making him dinner aswell whilst he does nothing. He was never like this before I’m really hurt. I feel like the more I do the more is expected of me.
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Agreed with comment above.. if it was genuinely a migraine it would have been real hard for him to do much unfortunately.. hope you can patch it up x
It sounds like this is a one off. Migraines are horrific and really do affect your ability to function normally. I think given that he’s unwell and this isn’t the norm, you should give him some grace
Migraines do knock people out. It's more than just a headache. But if it's reoccurring without the migraine then he is a bitch.
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I would say if he genuinely has a migraine, they can be debilitating, and to let him off for this occasion. However, if this is reoccurring behaviour not due to a migraine, then I would agree there’s a reason to be upset x