Have you gotten your tubes tied?

r/sterilization on reddit has been so helpful for this. getting mine snatched in a couple weeks

Yes had it done 8 years ago when I was 29. Healing was fine, I had it during my last c section. My periods are now heavier and more painful but I don't regret it.

I wanted it done after I had my baby and they said “this is something you should have said before your c section so we could have done it then” like I wasn’t thinking about that when I had already been in labor for 32 hours and I was being rushed to get a c section and in so much pain I was more worried about my pain stopping and the fact I was about to get cut open well awake but I’m glad it happened that way because I’m debating on having another baby I kinda wanna try for a daughter