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If it is 100% what you want then I say just go for it, but make sure you do your research! It’s not as if you can ever reverse a hysterectomy.. I would be thinking about the future and the possibility of one day wanting more children, what would you do then? Or are you absolutely certain that there is no way in hell you want more than 4? I think I would worry that I would change my mind, but everyone is different 🥰
I want exactly the same thing. Idk if it’ll be a hysterectomy but I don’t like birth control & I also don’t want anymore kids
Tbh I don’t think u should…. Have him get a vasectomy
I'd recommend getting ur tubes tied first that's reversible a hysterectomy is not you need to be absolutely certain thats what you want if you plan to go through with it heck I'd recommend talking to a therapist about it i would also talk to your husband you married him for a reason maybe the reason he wants to have more sooner is for your sake
Hey 👋 I just got my tubes removed and I think it was the best decision , I didn’t like using birth control either.
@Jade I only want 4 if I do get it done and we want more kids we can foster and adopt. I am adopted and I love the idea of doing the same for other kids.
That’s lovely, if you don’t worry about changing your mind then - your body, you choice 🤗
I think it’s completely valid. I’m 25 and have two children almost 3 & 1. We now don’t plan on having anymore, I don’t like the side affects birth control has previously had on me. I would 100% have a hysterectomy tomorrow if I could! I have thyroid problems so I’ve got to be careful about drastic hormone changes. As long as you do your research into the hormonal changes you will have and are happy with everything and can find a specialist who is able to guide you 100% do what you feel is right xx