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You don’t need that sort of person in your life that’s a boy not a man
Hell no I’m currently struggling with this sadly and I’m only 25 weeks tomorrow and he changed his history to delete after every hour so I can’t see anything and he says nothing what so ever he just keeps doing it and what’s worse is he does is he does it at work and lies about so many small things. And only fans is terrible because they have to pay for that crap. He’s a man child not a boy sounds like if you’re able to leave that person that’s not right.
@Georgia 🇬🇪 it’s such a struggle he done the same with his google history but a while ago I snuck on his phone and changed it to save hence how I caught him again I’m not sure if he’s paid for only fans this time around but he has in past as I caught him on my best friends one
@Georgia I know some women are absolutely fine with it but I can’t do it
No don’t be fine with it at all. And yea my babies dad he checks his phone all the time he watches me at night making sure I don’t go near it and always has it far away from me. I know it’s hard girl but don’t put up with it if you don’t have to because it will only get worse
No! If he loves you he will want to respect you and what you are comfortable with- I struggled with it from my ex cheating and lots of lying about porn so with my current husband I expressed how I felt and now we watch it together sometimes, if I’m leaving the house for nights at a time we will talk about it, I actually will tell him “if you want to have some you time it’s okay” and he still doesn’t because he knows how I really feel about it. We have conversations about once every other month making sure we both still feel good about everything. What I’m saying is, if he wanted to make you feel good he would try harder. He can go a flipping week without it. Also only fans to me is not “just porn” you’re literally paying some girl to look at her specifically.
My ex uses chat places like chaterbate is his top favorite he doesn’t care what so ever what I think he would rather look and watch them than to even look at me.
I’ve seen so many of these posts and I wish every single one would break up with their partner. They don’t respect you or your boundaries. I would absolutely leave someone over this there is no compromise. Basically choosing random people on a phone over you. You deserve better!!
I personally don’t have an issue with my partner watching porn but if it’s something you have expressed to him that makes you uncomfortable and he continues, that’s not ok. Open phone policy always. If they get weird about it, there’s a bigger issue going on. There’s no reason to hide shit from your partner
Personally don’t have any issues with porn. I watch it myself and I think how else would he have a wank? Unless he wasn’t sleeping with me and just watching porn that would be my only issue.
@Elena is females have hands
@Elena I just think it depends on individuals boundaries
The issue here is not really that he watched porn but he cheated on you and recently too, so while pregnant. So he should do everything he takes to win your trust back, which he is clearly not doing. I personally don't have an issue with porn but in your case there is something deeper than that. If you both agreed to move on after he cheated, then he needs to put on the work. I'm also surprised that you are thinking of ending the relationship over porn but not over the fact he cheated
@Marie we spilt up due to him cheating but got back together after he promised that he would never do it again and that was when I mentioned that I’m not comfortable with porn as our sex life suffers from it which him going back to it is clear the boundaries are not respected and it’s makes me think that it might not just stop at porn
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@Elena our sex life suffers completely when he is watching it as he loses any desire of wanting me and will go weeks without having sex unless I mention it
Yeah so this is where it is a problem. If a man can watch porn and masterbate and it NOT affect the relationship then there shouldn’t be an issue but if it means you’re not having sex or he’s not wanting you then I completely agree with you x
I’m fine with regular porn like Pornhub or general sites, but if you’re paying to subscribe to someone specifically and have 1v1 chats, I’d be pissed. If you already spoke to him abt it, he’s being an insensitive douche for not taking in your feels!
Omg i just saw the comment about his subscribing to your friends acct!!?? Love, you deserve more
Yeah he is taking it to another level. He has an issue with that, seems like addiction. In any case he is not trustworthy. Sorry, you are going through this while pregnant, too, but you deserve better
Onlyfans is the worst offender imo. You have to pay for that. Way worse than just searching up a porn site.
Watching porn is one thing, but subscribing to OF is something else! My fiance watches porn at times, but he'd never go on OF or pay for it, not when there's loads of free porn available lol. I'm not exactly tiny either, but I don't feel threatened or insecure about this, it doesn't mean anything x
He’s an asshole